Should we extend
life with just medical support is one of the long debated, never ending,
unanswerable questions! Though I have heard the question, arguments from both
sides several times in the past, the question shook me today. When I heard the
40+ son feeling so desperate to save his 70+ mother, I did not know
how to respond! The son is desperate for his mother and the mother is not in a
position / state of conscious to decide!! When it is just a discussion topic in office lunch
table, our reaction is different! When it comes to reality, when someone is
really going thru the pain of taking such a decision, our reaction is so very
different! I did not have a suggestion one way or the other!
Of course, I can not decide for others! But, I have been thinking
what is my decision in such a scenario! If I
am in the mother's situation, my decision is not to extend my life only with
medical support! No way!! I would rather go!
Many times, it
appears as if there are things only I can do… But the truth is there is nothing
that has to be done by a specific person only!! Sure, each of us is unique,
precious, we are the only person who can do something the way we do! But we are
not irreplaceable - be it in business world or in personal world! Even a child
who loses both parents a minute after birth survives in this world! Of course,
life becomes harder for the child; but it survives! So, why create unnecessary burden on the soul to stay longer
by force!
This blog post is
like an open declaration to all that if at all I end up in such a situation,
please donate all my "donatable" organs and let me go!
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